Allow reading of growing avi files (ie currently being written)

This uses the RIFF header stored size to figure out the expected AVI file size, instead
of the actual file. To work fully it requires handling failed avio_seek() instead
of assuming they always succeed.

Some fate file has been cut off and contains half a frame at the end which previously
was not output during demuxing. This frame is now output to encoder, thus fate
diff update.