Make ff_parse_expr() and ff_parse_and_eval_expr() return an int

containing an error code.

Allow these functions to convey the reason of the failure to the
calling function, failure which is not always due to a parsing error
but it may depend for example on a memory problem.

Also fix several potential memleaks.

Originally committed as revision 23402 to svn://svn.ffmpeg.org/ffmpeg/trunk